Through candid conversations with guests like Tushar Kapoor, Karansingh Grover, Daniel Weber, Raghu Ram, and Gurmeet Choudhary, the podcast covers the fatherhood journey of celebrity fathers. Karanvir’s podcast offers a refreshing perspective on the emotional and practical aspects of parenting. From personal anecdotes to heartfelt stories, Daddy Adventures is a space where fathers can connect, share, and find support in their parenting journey.
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A Platform for Fathers: The Genesis of Daddy Adventures
In a world brimming with support systems for mothers, the concept of a dedicated platform for fathers often seemed like an elusive dream. Enter Karanvir Bohra, the actor-turned-daddy-blogger who took it upon himself to bridge this gap. "I've been a hands-on daddy for almost eight years," Karanvir shares, reflecting on his twin daughters who are on the brink of their eighth birthday. The idea for Daddy Adventures was born from his personal experiences and observations. "When they talk about parenting, they only consider motherhood. But in parenting, the backbone is the father."
Karanvir’s motivation is deeply rooted in his observations of his father, grandfather, uncles, and the modern-day fathers around him. "They are all so involved, making a life for their children that they just don't come into the picture." This sentiment was further solidified during a conversation with MTV Roadies fame, Raghu Ram who remarked, "God has created man to go outside the cave and hunt, whereas the woman would be in the cave." This historical perspective resonated with Karanvir, especially in the post-COVID era where traditional roles have been upended. Fathers are now more visible, more engaged, and grappling with the dual responsibilities of providing and nurturing.
The Unspoken Struggles of Fathers
Karanvir passionately articulates the often-overlooked struggles of fatherhood. "We have to hide our fears, our tears, our pain," he confesses. This emotional suppression is a common thread among fathers, who are rarely asked about their feelings and challenges. This gap in dialogue and understanding was a catalyst for Daddy Adventures. "Nobody has asked this question to us at all," Karanvir says, emphasizing the therapeutic nature of the platform for both him and his guests.
The podcast serves as a sanctuary for fathers to share their journeys, struggles, and triumphs. "For all of them, it's like therapy," Karanvir notes. This shared space has allowed fathers to feel seen and heard, breaking the silence that often surrounds their emotional experiences. The conversations on Daddy Adventures reveal that despite the diverse backgrounds of the guests, the core struggles and joys of fatherhood are universally relatable.
A Journey Through Fatherhood: Karanvir’s Personal Tale
Reflecting on his own fatherhood journey, Karanvir admits, "I can't even sum it up. It has just begun." Every stage of a child's growth brings new lessons and challenges. "When they're like infants, they're different. When they're toddlers, they're different. When they start becoming a little mature, they're different," he explains. The evolving nature of parenting requires constant adaptation and learning. "There is no rule book. There is no dummy's guide to fatherhood."
Karanvir’s parenting philosophy diverges from the traditional methods he experienced growing up. "In our time, if we made a mistake, we would get hit, slapped. There is this fear of respect, fear of love, fear of not making a mistake," he recalls. In contrast, he and his wife Teejay foster an environment where mistakes are permissible and emotions are acknowledged. "It's okay to be angry. It's okay to throw a fit. When you calm down, come to me, I'll give you a hug," he says, highlighting a nurturing approach that liberates their children from the fear he once felt.
Memorable Moments and Takeaways from Daddy Adventures
Each episode of Daddy Adventures offers a treasure trove of insights and heartfelt moments. Karanvir recalls an episode with Tushar Kapoor, where they discuss the insecurities that not just mothers face but even the fathers do. Recalling a conversation with Tushar Kapoor, he mentioned, "even though he's Tushar Kapoor, Jitendra's son, Shobha Kapoor's son, he still goes through the same struggles that we go through,". This realization that celebrity fathers face the same challenges as any other father underscores the universal nature of parenting.
One of the most memorable moments was an extended chat with Karan Singh Grover, which was initially planned for 40-45 minutes but stretched into a two-and-a-half-hour conversation. "It was like two friends talking at coffee pe charcha," Karanvir notes highlighting the genuine, unfiltered nature of the show and the unexpected depth of connection that can happen during these discussions. "Neither of us wanted to get up," Karanvir laughs. The candid and unfiltered conversations make Daddy Adventures feel less like an interview and more like a heartfelt exchange between friends, emphasizing the relaxed yet profound nature of these discussions.
The Emotional Rollercoaster of Fatherhood
One of the most poignant stories Karanvir shares is about sending his daughter Vienna to Canada alone. "It was very challenging but not easy," he admits. When his visa didn’t come on time, he and his wife Teejay decided to send Vienna by herself. "How will Vienna react? That was the question," he says, recalling the anxiety of the situation. To their surprise, Vienna’s friends’ excitement about the adventure helped her embrace the journey. "Your friend circle also has to be good," Karanvir muses, highlighting the influence of peers on a child's perspective.
The emotional toll of this decision was immense. "Those 24 hours were the most crucial for me. I just could not rest, could not sleep," he confesses. The experience was a testament to the trust and independence they instilled in Vienna, but it also underscored the emotional weight of such parental decisions. "It was literally like vidaai," Karanvir says, comparing the moment to a traditional farewell.
Parenting Playbook: Tips & Tricks for Every Stage of the Game
Karanvir’s insights into parenting are practical and grounded in his experiences. "When a child has a fit or tantrum, don't buckle in," he advises. Letting children cry and express their emotions without immediately giving in to their demands is crucial. "You cannot lose your cool. You have to be the parent," he asserts. This approach teaches children that every time they cry, they won’t always get what they want; fostering resilience and patience.
His perspective on disciplining is equally insightful. "Some parents do it in an aggressive way. Some parents do it in a softer way," he notes. Regardless of the method, the key is consistency and maintaining a calm demeanor. "We have to learn how to be a parent. It's a learning for us, not for the child," he says, emphasizing that parenting is an ongoing journey of growth and adaptation.
How Daddy Adventures Can Totally Change the Game
Hosting Daddy Adventures has profoundly impacted Karanvir’s perspective on fatherhood. "I'm not the only one," he says, finding solace in the shared experiences of other fathers. Conversations with guests like Gurmeet Choudhary, who strives for perfection in his parenting just as he does in his career, have reinforced the idea that a parent's personality and values inevitably shape their approach to raising children.
Karanvir’s reflections reveal a deep understanding of the unique challenges fathers face. He recalls an interview with Tushar Kapoor, where despite Tushar’s celebrity status, the struggles of parenting were strikingly relatable. "Whatever tips you take from anybody, you will only do what your mechanism tells you to do," he says, acknowledging that every father brings his unique personality and experiences to the parenting journey.
Karanvir’s journey through fatherhood has been a learning curve, especially in understanding the emotional landscape. "For parents, fathers, the state of mind changes when they decide to have a child," he observes. This transition is marked by significant shifts in priorities and responsibilities. "These are very big, responsible decisions in life," he says, reflecting on the profound impact of becoming a father. He also acknowledges the emotional challenges that come with supporting a partner through pregnancy and postpartum. A shift in mindset is crucial for fathers to navigate the emotional and practical demands of parenting effectively.
The Unbreakable Bond of Parental Love
Karanvir's reflections on the love between a parent and child are deeply moving. "There is no love beyond that love. All other love comes secondary," he says. This divine love is a cornerstone of his parenting philosophy. "What a father feels for his child, and what a mother feels for her child, vice versa, is divine love," he emphasizes. This unbreakable bond is the foundation of all other relationships, providing a wellspring of unconditional support and affection.
The Future of Daddy Adventures
As Daddy Adventures continues to evolve, Karanvir is excited about the upcoming seasons. "We are coming up with season two," he announces, with plans to make the show even more casual and relatable. "I want people to feel that they are just normal people talking about normal things," he says, aiming to create a space where fathers can share their experiences without the pressure of being on camera.
In closing, Karanvir’s journey through fatherhood and Daddy Adventures is a testament to the resilience, love, and adaptability of fathers. His candid reflections and heartfelt conversations offer a beacon of support and understanding for fathers everywhere, reminding them that they are not alone in their parenting journey. Through Daddy Adventures, Karanvir Bohra is not just creating content; he is building a community where fathers can connect, learn, and grow together.
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